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    Finding out Reality can be really rough at times

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      ROCKCHALK2025 @FarmerJayhawk
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      @farmerjayhawk Thanks for thinking of me bud-- just hard , sitting here in the house alone/empty. Everywhere I look there she is/isn't person doesn't realize how much you can love someone and then BAM GONE hits pretty hard kinda sucks

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        ROCKCHALK2025 @Jayhawk_69
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        @Jayhawk_69 Thank you. you know people say you better prepare yourself but you can never really prepare yourself for something like this you may think your ready but when it hits it just like a swift kick to the ya.-- thank you again

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          ARbosshawk
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          Navigating the weight of illness, particularly in advanced stages, is one of the greatest pains in this world. I deal with it every day in my job and it never gets any easier—my heart goes out to your wife and loved ones. However, I will say this: it’s truly a privilege to be surrounded by your loved ones, who care so deeply, in your final days. I have no doubt that she feels the warmth of the love and compassion you provide to her. I’m wishing you the best.

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            DanR @ROCKCHALK2025
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            @ROCKCHALK2025 Hang in there, man. Just be there and do what you can do for her. That's all. Midland was great helping with my mother, so lean on those folks. So sorry.

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              ROCKCHALK2025 @ARbosshawk
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              @ARbosshawk thank you so much, I told her one night she was suffering having a really hard time breathing and I said you know baby, this might sound cruel----cold but if our maker our Lion of Judah, our savior decides it's time then said I just as son he took you now so you wouldn't have to suffer anymore- -don't want to lose you but at least you would be free from all pain and be in pure bliss in our kingdom of heaven

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                ROCKCHALK2025 @DanR
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                @DanR Thank you , ya they seem pretty nice they gonna work with her on trying to get stronger, It 's just rough tell you how bad it's gotten I can take my index finger and wrap around her arm and touch my thumb to her arm all the way up to her shoulder, her spine sticks out , her collar bone is real visible just sad breaks my heart

                Thanks so much for your words buddy . appreciated.

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                  nuleafjhawk
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                  Praying for you, brother. God will give you grace to get through this. 🙏

                  America! Where you have the right to be wrong.

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                    kjayhawks2.0 @ROCKCHALK2025
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                    @ROCKCHALK2025 prayers are with you my friend, my uncle had the same thing with COPD and a few weeks after his 62 birthday he passed away. We all have a clock ticking that we can’t see, enjoy everyday you can with her buddy.

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                      ROCKCHALK2025 @kjayhawks2.0
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                      @kjayhawks2.0 Thank you for that, not easy but like you say just cherish the time we do have, God has his plan

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                        BeddieKU23
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                        I'm very sorry to hear of this with your wife. We are all here for you if you need a shoulder to lean on.

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                          wissox83
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                          Sorry to hear about this. I just read it, missed it somehow. Take care of her and yourself.

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                            ROCKCHALK2025 @BeddieKU23
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                            @BeddieKU23 Sorry it took me so long to reply my friend. Greatly appreciate your words/thoughts. Pretty hard to accept but hey just prayers and who knows there have been people who go longer then predicted

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                              ROCKCHALK2025 @wissox83
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                              @wissox83 Thank you, doing the best we can -- -trying to stay busy and not over think things. Thing is she is only 58 feels like she getting cheated- -- and yet that is not for me to say, it's in our fathers hands. Only he knows when exactly he is taking her home

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                                nuleafjhawk @ROCKCHALK2025
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                                @ROCKCHALK2025 Please Google this

                                what does be still and know that i am God mean?

                                America! Where you have the right to be wrong.

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                                  ROCKCHALK2025 @nuleafjhawk
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                                  @nuleafjhawk what ? you lost me.

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                                    nuleafjhawk @ROCKCHALK2025
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                                    @ROCKCHALK2025 if you Google "what does be still and know that i am God mean?" It explains a lot about God's sovereignty and how we can trust Him always.

                                    America! Where you have the right to be wrong.

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                                      bskeet
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                                      Still holding you and your family in my thoughts.

                                      Rock Chalk!

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